It's interesting to see those struggling, when you're struggling too. It's kind of like putting yourself in someone else's shoe. It's great to know that others are also going through hard times, so it doesn't seem like you're the only one in the world. But because of the struggles on other people's minds, sometimes you just feel like you should take on their struggle and it's not time to tell them yours, they have enough on their plate. So when that's the case, what should you do?
Sigh..
Isn't this a little unfortunate? People look for comfort from others. We look for satisfaction, for affection, for approval, for sympathy. We see ourselves in the perspective of others. Hmm..
I have this friend, and she doesn't care at all of what others think. See, that's great because she's living by her own standards and is not swayed easily. However, because of her strong character, it renders others hard to understand her and get to her - and at times, some of the things she does is just not seen as friendly she may possibly want it to - or maybe she just doesn't care.
So then what is the balance?
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